This time, I try not to organize too much but just pack the stuffs. As when you unpack the stuffs, you will organize again. Finally this method works and more efficient.
Thanks for my old flatmate and new flatmate, they borrowed me their luggages and help me to move out and in. And I really thanks God to let me know Wei Li, she is the only one who speak Cantonese in Italy that I know. She is a specially lady who teach me a lot about point of view from Christianity. She is the only one I met who from Mainland China who dislike China and Chinese people thinking method.
She cannot communicate with any Chinese about her thoughts, she only share this with her parent and me. Unfortunately I understand why overseas people dislike Chinese, one of the reason is Chinese that you usually met in Aboard, they are from Wang Zhou. They are mainly care about how to earn money. Wealth to them are very important, I heard that they are very good in Biz like Jewish. The Chinese restaurants in Milan or Italy, owners probably are from Wen Zhou.
Other than this issue, you can also imagine the first immigrant groups from Mainland China, they were not well educated. The only chance to survive here is earning money. At least 2 or 3 generation to change the mindset from their family education.
Actually to me, China has a great tradition, art, poem, craftsmanship and other creations. But it has been closed the door and disconnected to the World for 30-50 years. They forced to know nothing and put to be poor. So people want to be rich and escape from poor and China. So in that worse situation, who take care of the continuity of culture. No order and not putting any effort to maintain and develop from what they created before.
So don't be silly, if you think Japanese are polite. They has stolen many many design and ideas from you already. But one thing they are good is, they are very concentrate on their professional. They have very good art sense and willing to modify to suit the Asian market.
I am fair to said China and Japan as I am mixed in a way. So when I was small children, I can see how pretty when I travel to Japan and how far ahead from Hong Kong.
Beside, when I talk with Wei about China and Europe, we talked about what is the centre of beauty, there is a way to reach. Otherise, now, all the people from their countries just dislike others. The judgement are mainly from their own background and point of view. So it is impossible to reach the harmony.
My classmates always laugh at me if I told them I have a Sophisticate and Mature talk to her. Indeed I learn a lot form her. She is the only one ask me need not to work hard. If I was tired, don't go to school. I am learning to slow down, to enjoy peaceful and not to afraid of future.
She teach me to enjoy what I see and live now. Living now, enjoy now. Not to worry about future and regret from the past. Yes, learning but still frightened to my future.
I feel very sleepy now to adopt new environment and will talk about this Chinese lady again.
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